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Dating Culture: How It’s Changing And How To Choose Your Path To Follow

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The overall dating culture is constantly changing as new generations use the tools and shifts in social mores to seek partners like never before. Such a transformation is already apparent in the present, with vast shifts happening right in front of our eyes. We are going to look at how the latest adult generation, the Millennials, have changed the paradigm for romance these days. 

New Dating Types - What Came with Millennials in Relationship Culture?

Millennials are an interesting and oft-maligned generation, and their take on dating is highly intertwined with their technology-laden lives. Three major trends have emerged regarding dating with Millennial people. For one thing, this generation is far more likely to date different people than previously. More interracial dates are happening nowadays than in the past, and people are looking past age and culture to find romance. Another major shift that society has seen is the desire for single people to look for casual relationships.

The modern generation is more likely to look for discreet hookups than previous generations, choosing to satisfy their physical desires and then move on without developing a typical relationship. Lastly and perhaps most obviously, millennials are more likely than others to start dating people online. They’ll flock to sites that allow them to get the short-term dating outcomes they want and find someone who intrigues them. From there, the relationship could grow or simply remain a one-time thing. 

What’s the Difference Between Open Relationships and Discreet Dating

A lot of people are wondering about the difference between being in an open relationship with someone and going about discreet dating, especially in the context of modern dates. Basically, an open relationship is when two people are in a defined relationship familiar to most people.

The only difference is that one or both of the members of the relationship have the ability to meet others and engage in relations with them without any romantic connection. Another sort of dating that is similar to this in nature is called discreet dating. This is when someone in the relationship, with or without permission from their significant other, decides to date another person.

This sort of interaction is often carried out on an online dating service, where the people can remain discreet and have their relationship in a setting where it’s hard to be discovered. Oftentimes, they’ll have interactions and not even know the other person’s full name. Discreet dating is a way for people to spice up their love lives and get what they want without having to invest in a new relationship. 

Simple Ways to Figure Out Exactly What You Want

The thing about many Millennials is that they have so many options that it can be hard for them to figure out what they want and expect from a relationship. Some of the following questions are good for them to ask regarding their plans for their dating lives. 

Choose Short or Long-Term Outcomes

First off, thinking about a relationship requires asking yourself whether you want a short or long-term outcome for romance. Do you want to invest time and effort into a romance or just have some casual fun and then move on to the next part? Some people are more interested in the idea of dating one person, while others want to play the field. Younger people tend to be more interested in the latter, but everyone has the choice. 

Figure Out if You Can Thrive Online or Not

Some people need to have a physical connection between themselves and their romantic partners to feel loved and connected. You have to consider whether you can stand being in an online-only relationship with someone for a significant amount of time or whether you have to have the ability to meet up with them in person whenever you want.  Online dating is also an outlet for those on the way to boost their self-confidence, so if you don't know how or where to start, it's enough to try discreet dating first.

What Are Your Thoughts on Monogamy?

Do you want to be with one person, or do you desire multiple people? If you want to meet multiple people, then hookups are probably the best thing for you. If you like to be monogamous and only have your partner with one person, then look for regular dates. 

How High Is Your Need for Intimacy?

If you need physical intimacy, you need to meet someone in-person or opt for a local dating site to help you find partners that will meet your needs. 

Ask yourself these questions and answer them so that you know what to look for as well as your options for finding partners. 

Trying to find a good partner these days can be challenging. However, the process becomes a lot easier when you know what you want and expect in your relationship. Millennials need to take a self-inventory and determine what would make them happiest and then use different methods to seek their love. Whether you want a long-term romance or to have an open relationship, tools exist for you to pursue your happiness.

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